Forget about what others think of you! That’s the ego. The secret of truly being beautiful is silencing the egoic mind. Live humble.. be beautiful! People will find you beautiful when they know you are paying more attention to the beautiful world around you. Of course you don’t want to completely forget about your self in the process, and yes, there is a healthy amount of narcism, but don’t let it take over. It might take you to a place of unhappiness, since everything, including physical beauty is only temporary. Find beauty in the world, and beauty will find you.